I suppose there are moments with your spouse when you are both happy (?)
and then the vacation/honeymoon is over...

kinda like Obama halfway into his first year...
suddenly realizes that his honeymoon is over with the U.S of A...


but maybe I ought to put on Mom's sweater to help us feel just a little better... Im not looking forward for our Oz vacation(?) to end even if for some R and R in rkansas...or worse...
I just love the comfort of my home in Oz with the cooling ocean to invigorate me with life again twice a day on good days!
and just feel the surf take me to wherever I want...and maybe swim with the dolphins without getting hurt..

and then I can think of this little river in the shire near Hobittville in the land of the Kiwis...
where we magically took these pics

and we can live happilly ever after in a little utopian village...
with our little family...?

maybe Ill feel better when I find moms sweater...


ok...am I crazy but wanna feel that energy of my mother again...

so I put on the sweater and Im waiting for her energy to help me deal with the worries of parenthood and even tougher the issues of being a good husband...

how can I do this in easy baby steps... well the first was putting on this sweater and letting my son feel the energy while he slept >..I took a pic just now of him and how he likes to roll over in the wierdest spots against the mesh of the little blue cot.. He is so cute ... we are really blessed..

quit worrying so much mate!

Darn man you got it... It seems to me that you're getting there...to the door of happiness. If see it from my Venezuelan perspective, in my culture we say: As you start thinking of being a good husband and being a good dad then is when you realize that your life is about to reach the coasts of that hidden island called "Happiness". Now I know you're a good guy and you're smart, just don't loose the way.. I've learned that marriage is just a combination of pure patience and love.. one can't success without the other ... patience to stand and defuse situations that could lead you to confrontations (with you wife...mainly) and love to keep going and going again one day at the time. But not all is rain and wind in a relation there are also moments of joy and the smart guy live and treasure those moments because that's at the end the only think you take "when you leave". Happiness is like diamonds to trade in the afterlife...so...BE HAPPY...ENJOY YOUR WIFE AND ABSOLUTELY ENJOY YOUR KID...you're right kids are a bless.. by my friend I miss the conversations in the office hahahaha.


Thanks, Buddy! I just wrote you a little note on here and it was all erased ... This happens frequently on this laptop...
it's stormy and rainy outside this Saturday morning while my family sleeps in... Colin woke up early this morning..
so Im enjoying the peaceful time looking out at the rough Pacific ... I want to enjoy every moment here even though it's approaching winter here...
I also want to enjoy every moment with my new little family like you said... You write beautifully with great heart, especially knowing that it is your second language.. I wish that I could do the same! I know a little German and sprinklings of other languages...
I think often of our patience with our favorite special ed children and have to learn even more with my family...
but I believe as you do that it's our greatest endeavor in life...
we live on through our children ..
I have the warmest feelings when Colin comes up behind me and hugs my legs...
soon we'll be coming back to the declining empire of the USA and all of it's issues...
I figure that we are now in an upward trend...
when you are down in the sewers you have no where to go but up... Maybe we could come visit you on the way to Colorado!
well, they are all awake now so I will cook them all brekkie!

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  1. Darn man you got it... It seems to me that you're getting there...to the door of happiness. If see it from my Venezuelan perspective, in my culture we say: As you start thinking of being a good husband and being a good dad then is when you realize that your life is about to reach the coasts of that hidden island called "Happiness". Now I know you're a good guy and you're smart, just don't loose the way.. I've learned that marriage is just a combination of pure patience and love.. one can't success without the other ... patience to stand and defuse situations that could lead you to confrontations (with you wife...mainly) and love to keep going and going again one day at the time. But not all is rain and wind in a relation there are also moments of joy and the smart guy live and treasure those moments because that's at the end the only think you take "when you leave". Happiness is like diamonds to trade in the afterlife...so...BE HAPPY...ENJOY YOUR WIFE AND ABSOLUTELY ENJOY YOUR KID...you're right kids are a bless.. by my friend I miss the conversations in the office hahahaha.

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